What do you do with the ashes of a loved one after a ceremony? Writer Hunter S Thompson famously requested his ashes to be blasted skyward, carried by red, blue and silver fireworks. And I'm pretty sure that you can do the same in this country (* never worked with them but look at 'Heavens Above Fireworks').
Organisations such as The National Trust do try to be supportive and are willing to consider a formal request.
